Sometimes you end up working with someone whose personality makes you wonder if they ever have a good time. You never see them smile, you never hear them say anything that borders on nice, or they rarely look you in the eye. When you talk to them on the phone, it seems as though they can't wait to get you off the phone because you may be interrupting something they feel is more important than your bothering them.

I've given some thought to this type of person, because I've encountered them from time to time. I don't believe there's anyone who's always in a bad mood. They may seem that way at work, but I bet they go home, watch some kind of comedy from time to time, talk to family members, and, every once in awhile, find a reason to laugh at something. Or maybe they find enjoyment doing something else, such as tending to their plants, or playing with a pet, or something. I just don't believe anyone could be dour 24/7.
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