9 Lessons Of Decorum
Posted by Mitch Mitchell on Sep 29, 2015
Today's post is going to be relatively short. That's because I'm going to talk about a subject I don't see all that much anymore.
People just aren't acting right. The level of disrespect I keep seeing employed against others is just amazing, and not in a good way. Just last week, while visiting with Mom, we were at the store and a man started banging his hands on the conveyor belt because she wasn't moving fast enough for him. I wanted to confront him... but I didn't... because I had to maintain my own sense of decorum since I was with Mom.
So, in the spirit and memory of last Tuesday, I share 9 quick lessons of decorum; add your own as you see fit:
1. Put yourself in someone else's shoes before you say something stupid.
2. Think about how you look when you decide to act or say something stupid in public.
3. If you won't say it in front of your parents or kids what makes you think we want to hear your filthy mouth in public places?
4. Don't think you're better than someone else because of your money, how you're dressed... actually, just don't think you're better than others.
5. Why are you yelling? Unless you cut off your toes, please stop.
6. Drunk in public; that's a good time?
7. Children repeat what they see & hear, not what you tell them. If you want to set a good example, be a good example.
8. Please... thank you... try it, you'll like it and others will too.
9. If you bump into someone and say "why don't you watch where you're going", why weren't you watching where you were going?
There you are, short and sweet. Hopefully this is only the start of a conversation; what would you like to add to this?
Yes I am agreeing with your concept. it is not possible to become a good leader without integrity.Integrity is one of the top attributes of a great leader. once learned and practiced this quality will bring out the making of exceptional leader.Every human is born with a conscience and therefore the ability to know right from wrong. Choosing the right, regardless of the consequence, is the hallmark of integrity.
I fully agree. Without integrity, a person has no real soul and is thus untrustworthy. Bad quality for a leader as far as I’m concerned.
Hi Mitch,
Your blog is wonderful. It is a shame how many people don’t have integrity nor ethics anymore. These 9 lessons of decorum I do take for granted, but many do not.
Thank you for shouting this out. If one wants to be take seriously they do have to keep this in mind.
-Donna
Thanks Donna. I’m with you; if we could think about others sometimes maybe the world will be less of a place where there’s constant conflicts.