{"id":4495,"date":"2015-04-28T10:00:22","date_gmt":"2015-04-28T14:00:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/?p=4495"},"modified":"2015-04-26T22:15:19","modified_gmt":"2015-04-27T02:15:19","slug":"are-leaders-allowed-to-laugh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/are-leaders-allowed-to-laugh\/","title":{"rendered":"Are Leaders Allowed To Laugh?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>At my last consulting assignment, people who didn't work in my department would often stop me and say \"You smile all the time; you must really enjoy your life.\" <\/p>\n<table align=\"right\" cellspacing=\"5\" cellpadding=\"5\">\n<tr>\n<td><a title=\"After dessert, see what happens?\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/72008482@N00\/1105623264\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" title=\"After dessert, see what happens?\" alt=\"After dessert, see what happens?\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.staticflickr.com\/1192\/1105623264_bc56b06827_m.jpg\" \/><\/a><br \/><center><small> <a title=\"CK, Carl, Carlo, Carlito\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/72008482@N00\/1105623264\/\" target=\"_blank\">CK, Carl, Carlo, Carlito<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/www.compfight.com\/\" title=\"Compfight\">Compfight<\/a><\/small><\/center><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n<p> I'd thank them and move on, because that would also make me smile. Truth be told, a lot of the work I did was pretty tedious, so I spent a lot of the day listening to different videos and audio files, and a lot of them were funny so I laughed a lot.<\/p>\n<p>I've learned that laughter and smiling is a pretty natural thing. It's also something that makes others feel pretty comfortable around you. Yes, there's a lot of serious stuff that goes on in business, but for the most part little of it is so serious that you can't find something to laugh at.<\/p>\n<p>Laughter is not only good for leaders but for departments as well. In a news story titled <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bizjournals.com\/phoenix\/blog\/business\/2014\/09\/the-5-laws-of-laughter-in-leadership.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">The 5 Laws Of Laughter In Leadership<\/a>, the author says \"Laughter increases productivity, develops creativity, expands learning, strengthens relationships, builds teamwork, creates opportunities, prompts creativity and, yes, enhances leadership.\"<\/p>\n<p>Yet, most of us rarely see a director or supervisor laugh. Their stress becomes everyone else's stress because everything seems like the world is about to end; at least in their eyes.<\/p>\n<p>I've never been like that. Most issues that come up aren't really all that serious; yes, I said that. Even if there's a deadline for something it's rarely as serious as a director makes it. I still laugh when someone decides that an item is so crucial that it warrants a lot of worry. As I said, some things can be that serious but if everything was that way you're working in the wrong business because you're going to burn out pretty fast.<\/p>\n<p>Here's one for you. Did you know that during many medical procedures someone is considered the funny one, the one who says things to help relieve the tension? <\/p>\n<p>When I had breast surgery in 1997, which was in a doctor's office, even though he was a pretty deadpan kind of guy he actually cracked a couple of jokes. At one point he said \"Your muscle tissue shows that you used to life weights\", and I said \"Thanks for noticing Doc; no one else did.\" And that made him laugh; it was a wondrous sound and I figured if he could laugh while cutting me open I was probably just fine.<\/p>\n<p>There's nothing wrong with trying to find a little bit of humor during the work day. Sure, there's a time when you need to buckle down to get work done, or you might have to counsel an employee for something. In the meantime, smile a lot and laugh as much as you can. Your office mates will appreciate it.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At my last consulting assignment, people who didn&#8217;t work in my department would often stop me and say &#8220;You smile all the time; you must really enjoy your life.&#8221; CK, Carl, Carlo, Carlito via Compfight I&#8217;d thank them and move on, because that would also make me smile. Truth be told, a lot of the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[113,30],"class_list":["post-4495","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-leadership","tag-laughter","tag-leadership"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4495","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4495"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4495\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4495"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4495"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ttmitchellconsulting.com\/Mitchblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4495"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}